spiritual life coach
Family Constellations
Reocurring difficulties? Reocurring problems and blockages that somehow keep coming back into your life? How can you break free?
Life is full of surprises. Many events make you happy, others are more painful or moreover you can gain experience.
But what if you face with the same situations, difficulties, problems and blockages?
Do you sometimes feel you are not living your life to your full potentials?
Do you feel you are held back?
Have you been weighed down by persisting emotions of fear, anger, anxiety, depression, sadness or guilt?
Are you experiencing reoccurring relationship troubles, professional struggles, financial hardship or self-sabotage?
If so, you have been searching …. books, videos, therapy, workshops, courses and even though you have learnt a lot, you still haven’t been able to break free.
What if it wasn't just about you!
What if some of it came from something much deeper, from unresolved traumas or unprocessed emotions from your family system that you have picked up subconsciously out of a very powerful love and loyalty to them?
Most of the issues you face today stem from unresolved events and unprocessed emotions from your family that you probably don’t know about and are passed down across generations. That’s why whatever you do, things cannot be changed or things even gets worts. It’s like you were trying to walk in quicksand.
How can you free yourself? In these cases Family Constellations can help.
Family Constallations is a groundbreaking technique to free yourself from the damaging repetitive patterns, blockages, behaviour and emotions that are limiting your life in some way today that you have unconsciously taken on from your family system.
Once the hidden dynamics behind the issue that is holding you back are seen from a completely different perspective, they are transformed, for you, your children and future generations.
Simply put, Family Constellations is a powerful method to transform your relationship with your family, work, vitality, money and life by releasing you from the entanglements that are holding you back.
What is this work based on?
Just like there are laws in our universe (e.x. The Law of relativity, polarity, cause and effect, etc.) there are also laws as known the ‘Orders of love’ operating in your family system. They are affecting you in ways that you aren’t even aware of. The reason is they are working in your subconscious.
Family Constellation is attributed to Bert Hellinger. The essence of the method is that all of us can live our own roles within our families according to the ‘orders of love’.
Family Constellations can be explored individually or in groups.
In terms of effectiveness, it doesn’t matter which one you choose.
If you prefer a more private, focused environment, individual sessions are the way to go
What happens in a Family Constellation?
Family Constellations take place in a calm and loving environment where we can uncover the stem of your difficulties and restore the ‘Orders of love’.
Individual workshop: only 2 of us – you and me – work together. We use tools like figurine, stones or plush but I prefer using colourful papers. We can stand on them to fulfill the appropriate role. You talk in the name of every member or role of your constellation. At first you don’t know which paper whom as not to disturb your conscious mind. At the end of the constellation you have a clear experience that your own role at your own place within your family fits you the best
Workshop in groups: strange people fulfill roles connected to your issues, they don’t know whom they represent, only you know who is who.
You can see your constellation from outside as ‘watching a movie’ to have a different point of view about dynamics within your family and clearly understand your life events.
Family constellation can be helpful at:
- relationship troubles
- lack of confidence
- divorce, restart
- development of mother-daughter or father-son relation
- difficulties within family relations
- at a crossroads, blockages
- professional struggles
- financial hardship, lack of creativity
- physical symptoms, pain, illness
- parenthood – questions and problems in connection with children
- achieving goals
- loss of a beloved person, mourning for someone, grief, etc.
I’m Orsolya Komáromi, a holistic life coach.
Sevice neithert applies to psychotherapy practice or a therapeutic counseling that requires qualification of health care profession, nor applies to medical, healing or naturopathic activity.